When the husband makes awful tea, is it necessary to put his culinary skills into perspective immediately, by being straightforward...
Does the wife need to be shown her place when she is stammering and struggling to collect her words while airing her opinion in a gathering...
A child doesn't need a comment on the elephant he has drawn, that looks like a rat..
The neighbors or friends might not be expecting your help in resolving or spreading the personal concerns they have expressed to you. So, it's better to not utter a word about it to others but just listen.
Having filters between the brain and tongue is really important to just let the other person know that though things might not be fine now, everything is going to be okay eventually. It encourages our dear person to keep trying or pouring out the mind and staying confident that they have someone behind them. Is this not what we expect from a partner? Friend? Or a parent? This pretence though false, lets the relationships live long.....
Certain proportion of hypocrisy, not amounting to deceit or mistrust, is definitely necessary in relationships, however close or distant they might be!! It is a way of respecting the individual and expressing the value they carry. At the same time, timing, framing and precisely presenting the critique are vital, when the things have to be made clear.
Does the wife need to be shown her place when she is stammering and struggling to collect her words while airing her opinion in a gathering...
A child doesn't need a comment on the elephant he has drawn, that looks like a rat..
The neighbors or friends might not be expecting your help in resolving or spreading the personal concerns they have expressed to you. So, it's better to not utter a word about it to others but just listen.
Having filters between the brain and tongue is really important to just let the other person know that though things might not be fine now, everything is going to be okay eventually. It encourages our dear person to keep trying or pouring out the mind and staying confident that they have someone behind them. Is this not what we expect from a partner? Friend? Or a parent? This pretence though false, lets the relationships live long.....
Certain proportion of hypocrisy, not amounting to deceit or mistrust, is definitely necessary in relationships, however close or distant they might be!! It is a way of respecting the individual and expressing the value they carry. At the same time, timing, framing and precisely presenting the critique are vital, when the things have to be made clear.
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