KBC Psychology jugalbandhi

Never explain or argue or even get into conversation with self-obsessed and single-minded people..............when you do that, you'll be dumb stuck by your own foolishness! Linking this to Amitabh's KBC funda, when you cling on to yourself, your routine, your own shell of thinking and stop trying out new things, acknowledging novelty, respecting the innovative thinkers, thereby resisting change.........u have involuntarily stopped learning........aur seekhna bandh, toh jeetna bandh!!

Kaka's Night Out

Succumbing to Kaka's pressure (who received a detailed explanation from his teacher on what kids would do in school on the night) and unable to gain support to the argument that children should only stay with family; I gave up and sent him to the 'Night-out' organized by his school. But, I must confess............after watching the highlights on TV, I realized that changing my mind was worth it............he enjoyed it to the core. Though I had a night-out too referring to his schedule and thinking of what Kaka would be doing every now and then, all the pain and anxiety vanished once I saw his happy face when I went to pick him up in the morning.........
Kids need the change! As parents, we must let them go at times, when we trust that they would be safe........