Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Wedding Invite


The bells started ringing inside me...
And she was the only thing my eyes could see;
She is the one I have been waiting for...
A voice said, ‘Take her to the altar’!!

I could see the sparkle in his eyes, 
On the first day when we wished each other goodbyes;
Casual looks, sweet words and the calm tone, 
My heart rejoiced, “He is my kind of person”!!

As we take this mutual and eternal appreciation
To the level of making it a grand celebration,
Both of us cordially invite you to grace the occasion
And bless us for a long and happy association…..

Tuesday, May 17, 2016

Summer Vacation

The day starts at 6am, as the boy is in a deep sleep kicks his brother off the bed, who lands on the nose of his aunt. The brother loses his sleep, along with the aunt who squeaks with the resulting swelling and pain; and his mother who has nothing to say but gives a sheepish smile to her sister, as a justification for her sons' deeds!!

It is midday. The youngest of the cousins are trying to let the Barbie clutch the shopping cart. Unable to accomplish it, they give up. The 4-year old then orders the 3-year old to ‘handle’ the doll (drive the cart and Barbie together so that they appear to be moving together). Unable to neither decode the meaning of the word nor the context of its usage, the younger one retorts, “You ‘handle’ it by yourself”!! Hurt by the defiance, the first one says, ‘I am 4, you are 3. You must listen to me’. In no mood to literally handle the domination, the young girl replies, ‘Even I shall turn 4 this December!!!' The argument continues until a complaint is lodged with the elders at home.

The clock shows 3pm. After a detailed lunch, the elders retire for an afternoon nap. The 8-year old is playing a code breaking game with his younger sister (younger just by 10 months). When the brother cracks the code, the sister cries foul as he already sneaked at the code while she was making it!! She shouts at him for deceiving her. When the sister cracks the code, the brother has the same objection and reaction. By the time half-a-dozen codes are broken, all the adults are around them solving the disputes!!

The time is 6pm and all the 5 cousins go for a swim in their specially-bought cute costumes. One acts to be as professional as a fish and displays his skills. The other holds on to the edge wall with one hand and shows off all the tricks with his other three limbs. One tries hard to get the basics right and keeps paddling the legs for the first half of the hour. One of them neither knows to swim nor wants to act so. She is not even interested to learn it immediately and just enjoys soaking and bumping in the water all around her (to the fear of her mother!!). The youngest one is seen crying before and even after entering the pool. But, soon forgets the reason for her grief and has fun with her companions!!

After having their dinner at 9pm, the cousins move into the bedroom and switch on music. The songs for which they have performed at the Annual Day celebration of their respective schools would be played and all five of them would dance, oblivious of the fact that these songs are being so many times over all the devices at home that they have become the most searched ones on YouTube on all the smartphones, laptops and tabs!!

The time is 11:45pm, the cousins are cracking their childish jokes, laughing and giggling aloud. The uncle is bothered about disturbing their neighbors. But, the merriment doesn’t stop until the mother of the eldest of the cousins switches off the lights, strictly warns them to close their eyes and call it a day!!

Four weeks of this crazy routine!! And it is now time for the cousins to part ways for this year, as the first leg of their summer vacation is about to end!!!
It has been as much a bonding time for the elders, as it was for the kids!! They left no stone unturned to make the best of these days........multi-language movie marathons; combined singing, stitching, walking, cooking and gossiping sessions of the adults continued round the clock too!!

Sunday, May 8, 2016

Mother's day

Children are definitely mischievous in one way or the other. They climb up and reach out for the toys hidden on the uppermost rack of the wardrobe, jump from the kitchen counters, shout aloud irrespective of the hour of the day, tumble down things that come in their way, break the crockery, spill the milk and water, touch things which they are warned against, sneak on the screens to find out the magic that keeps their parents glued to them..be it TV, mobile phone or tab!! 
Their energy never exhausts while playing but an hour of study time drains them out completely!! 
They fight with their siblings, defend themselves even when caught red-handed (though they give up eventually!!)!! They do resort to telling lies at times!! 
They can't have permanent enemies or learn lessons from experience!! They befriend the child they like even if he tries to avoid them rudely!! They can't get their eyes off anything they want.... If they want something, they mean it, irrespective of the necessity and situation.... They cry over petty things and create ruckus for least expected reasons.
The list of their wrong-doings is endless and no amount of gyaan can put them off from doing these!!
The inconsistencies only direct the world towards their upbringing. There is only one person who can join the dots, connect the negatives with the positive side of the children, appreciate it as a part of their 'growing up' regimen. Nevertheless, being adults themselves, they can't stop themselves and pronounce punishments, act angry, scold, then explain the matter to put them back on track.
These people take the blame for the acts of the children for the time being and patiently wait....only to get back with vengeance and display their trophies...... their grown up and mature children who made a small yet significant difference to the world, but for the mistakes and misdeeds!!
No prizes for guessing the best form God has given to the patience, tolerance, endurance and unconditional love needed to nurture the mischief and take it into stride......The Mother!!

Happy Mother's Day to all the moms (though they don't need just a day or time for them, they definitely need a special mention at least once a year)!!